Speed dating can feel nerve-wracking if it's your first time. Here are five tried-and-tested tips from our experienced hosts to help you walk in confident and walk out with great connections.
1. Arrive Early
Getting there 10 minutes before the event starts gives you time to settle in, meet the host, and grab a drink. You'll feel far more relaxed when the bell rings for the first round.
2. Keep It Light in the First Round
Don't dive into heavy topics straight away. Start with something easy – where you grew up, what you do for fun, your last holiday. First impressions are about energy and warmth, not life history.
3. Ask Questions You Actually Care About
The best conversations happen when both people are genuinely curious. Think about what actually matters to you in a partner and ask about it – just keep it conversational rather than interview-style.
4. Be Present
Put your phone away. Give each person your full attention for those 7 minutes. You'll be surprised how much you can learn about someone – and how much they appreciate the focus.
5. Say Yes More Than You Think
First impressions at speed dating are different from a full date. Someone who seems quiet in a noisy room might be wonderful over coffee. When in doubt, tick the box – you have nothing to lose.